Goodbye, 2015.

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I would like to gracefully depart 2015 with a note for anyone who has recently had their heart broken.

Things probably seem pretty fucking shitty right now. You may still be struggling to dig yourself out of a mound of snotty Kleenex – or perhaps you’re not even pretending to try. Or maybe you are subsisting on a diet of ramen noodles and crushed dreams.

Whatever part of the process you are in, please know that all the Pinterest quotes don’t lie. Time really does take time.

Eventually you will look back on this time of your life and shake your head. You may even smile. Your life will unfold in unimaginable ways, if you just allow yourself the time to heal properly and then be brave enough to open yourself up again.

My life is so much bigger than it ever was when I was with him. My heart is full. And I don’t mean that I filled it with another man. I managed to stay single. I found my own happiness without building up my life around one human being.

So cry it out. Drink lots of wine. Eat ramen until you’re in a MSG coma. Surround yourself with friends and family. And when you’re ready, put your big girls pants on, take a deep breath and shake it off. As a smart person once said:

Bitch, be cool. Do you. This is life. Keep figuring it out.

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3 thoughts on “Goodbye, 2015.

  1. Through the Looking Glass says:

    This is my absolute favourite!! I’ve been following your journey since the very beginning, and reading this filled me with so much happiness, hope and comfort. Your heart has grown and so has your mind. I pray that the Universe gets you back on track you ever stray and makes you realise over and over again, how amazingly awesome you really are (in the least painful way, ofcourse). This is my wish for you. Happy New Year!

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  2. candygideon says:

    Such a good read, been there and giving time for self worth really does help. I couldn’t be in a better place right now! Life…teaches you a lot about yourself especially the not so good times. Onwards and upwards 😊

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